Wednesday, August 4, 2010

Hugs are Great!!!

Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto wife: and they shall be one flesh. And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed. -Genesis 2:24-25

As part of our ongoing intent, “To Make Love.” Greta and I make a concerted effort to live and practice what we teach. We are making our marriage fun by engaging in a variety of activities. We took the scripture, which was read at our wedding over twenty-five (25) years ago seriously. We are seeking to grow and become ONE. We seek to be present in each moment. We are seeking to grab hold and hug.

Kissing, Eye-Gazing and Hugging are three activities that have come to be the tapestry of our “love-making.” I am talking about making love and not sex. Greta loves non-sexual contact. As a result, I have become more sensitive, disciplined and able to meet her emotional needs. That is not to say that I don’t have more work to do, but my work is paying off and Greta and I both feel that our intimacy is deepening.

We are becoming more affectionate and we truly enjoy each other’s company. All of this is part of us becoming “Naked” before one another. We share our thoughts and feelings with each other without fear of judgment, punishment or retribution. Yes, some couples do punish each other for not being who the other wants them to be.

As we are naked we find acceptance with and from each other. This is so refreshing, empowering, honoring and loving. It deepens our trust and strengthens our intimacy. Being conscious that we make time for each other increase our love energy. We both know that enjoying dates and time together is important to the other. We feel loved, nurtured and cherished. We are having our individual needs met and we are meeting the other’s need. It is not always easy, but it is happening more and more and more. We hug. We hug each other in love emotionally, spiritually and literally.

It is such a blessing to honor Genesis 2: 24-45. We are clinging to each other and it is wonderful. Once you put something out into the universe its seems you are challenged. Greta and I accept the challenge to live and practice what we teach. We live in partnership with each other. She has my back and I have hers. It starts with communication. Kissing, Hugging and Eye-Gazing are great deep forms of communication. We recommend that husband and wives adopt them as staples in committed relationships.

“Sex In The Morning Show with Gary A. & Greta” continues to bring more vibrancy into our lives. We are working hard to present truths and practices that will help “you” take your marriage to your desired level. It has been and it is fun and fulfilling. We continue with our “Affection Series” and we look forward to sharing our next segment, which will be dedicated to “Hugging.” It can be found at: http://www.youtube.com/Sensuousseminars1.

We know that the information we share is valuable. It keeps us in a positive and receptive frame of mind. We use it and it works. We present it to you as a testimony of our faith and practice.

We pray that you will use the information that we present to create a marriage and life of your dreams. We encourage you to do the practices that are presented to you.

Yours truly,
Gary A.